Some schmuck once told me “College is the best time your life.” Maybe they were right, maybe they were wrong. It seems to me that college-like every other opportunity-is what you make of it. No more, no less. But as an opportunity, it may indeed be the best we’ll ever have.
In his bestseller, “Bowling Alone,” Robert Putnam documents the national decline of civic engagement. The book’s premise, which the Lexington, Mass., author supports with ample evidence, is that Americans are less connected to each other and to their community than they once were. A host of factors-socioeconomic, political, and technological-contributed and continue to contribute to this decline of community.
Many of you have read Putnam’s book, as it is standard fare in several Washington University classes. I, however, was introduced to “Bowling Alone” this summer during the Century Institute’s Summer Program at Williams College. To prepare for the program, a two-week seminar on progressive politics, I was required to read a significant amount of background material, including Putnam’s work. Near the end of the session, Putnam himself came to Williamstown and addressed the program’s twenty-nine participants.
I had enjoyed his book tremendously and had looked forward to his visit. I too am from Lexington, Mass., and wanted to finally meet (ironic, eh?) Putnam. So I did, and we talked about his book and about the town in which we both live. But we did not “connect.” He was nice enough, but, unlike his book, not particularly engaging. We didn’t connect for many reasons, not least of which was the gap in age (and life experience) between us.
Herein lies the beauty of college, the opportunity for four-years of almost exclusive interaction with people our own age. The result is predictable: we students reject the social impulse to disconnect. Instead, we connect on Friday nights (and, if extra “lucky,” on Saturday mornings), in student groups and service organizations, and at places of scholarship and worship. We embrace each other and our community and form “friendships for a lifetime,” or so the schmuck would like me to believe.
But as there is truth in humor, there is truth in tackiness. I’ve made a couple friends I hope and expect to keep forever and have had a better time over the past five semesters than any period prior. I wrote this column not because I was inspired by Robert Putnam, but because I was inspired by another student, by an individual I have never met: Suzi Meyers. Last May, while in Washington conducting interviews for a summer job, I picked up a copy of the GW Journal, a publication produced by students at George Washington University. Each month, on its “views and voices” page, the Journal publishes student perspectives on a “hot topic.” Last May’s topic was, predictability, what students plan to do after year’s end. Suzi, at the time a senior only weeks away from graduation, explained her decision to attend a particular (unnamed) law school by reflecting upon what she found important during her time at GWU:
Sure I’ve spent the past four years piling up internships, activities, and honors to put on a resume. But I’ve also invested time and thought in people I value and beliefs I espouse. And in the long run, I think I’m going to remember talking with Rachael in J Street till five a.m., or the road trip to New York with Jon, Chris and Anna far longer than I’ll care about the implications of the 1956 Hungarian revolution. Education and personal advancement might put me in a more comfortable position in life, but rela- tionships will make me truly successful.
So they do. So bowl together, in college and beyond.
Yoni Cohen will be studying abroad in Kenya next semester and today’s piece is therefore his final editorial as a Student Life opinion editor.
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